Never Explain

I rarely like to explain myself, where I come from, or how I get to the points that I come to. But so many push for the answers as to why you do and think the things that you do. It's not the concern of another as to why I do what I do, as long as I am happy in the end. As a friend or family member, it should be the only concern - as long as I am not in physical or mental danger ... shouldn't it all be accepted as it is. I would like to understand everything that those closest to me do, but I know that in the end I won't ever understand it all because I do not live in their head, nor would i want to. My own head is enough to contend with. However, as each person seeks an answer to my life plan or what not, I find that the questions become more and more annoying. I am not sure what has brought about these actions, but alas they are here. I think its because more often than not as I explain my choices, I will find myself having defend against arguments that my thoughts are incorrect or there is something wrong with the reasoning behind my decision. For years I have made my own decisions, and while there have always been consequences to my actions, I have always faced them head on. Why do people feel the need to remind me of these consequences? I am well aware of the choices I am making and the repercussions of said actions. If you are simply asking to argue the choice, then please refrain from doing so, its not needed.

So therefore I am choosing to never explain... not the choices I make throughout my life, whether frivolous or serious. They are my choices to make and I am proud of the life I live.

Until next time....